OK Lord What the ???

We are trying to pay down debt, setup a budget and found out we are living about 500 above our means OUCH. Then my fave uncle passed away last week and that pushed me into finding out what is all going on with my moms finances. I knew she was broke but I didn't know how bad it was. I went to her house to find out she is at least 3 months behind on rent etc. and is signing Payday loans etc. all over town. GRRRR. So we talked and I am trying to get guardianship so at least I can start helping her. Stress, stress, stress then Eddie goes to work today and gets fired. So the bible says God only gives up what we can handle. Well at this moment in time I am "handled" out. We have to go to Saskatchewan for the funeral (the only way my mom could get there anyways). Which means time off work, hotel, gas, food expenses, kenneling etc. I don't know if I want to throw up or cry. I thought I knew why we were out here (to help my mom). Now again I am wondering. I like my job and my house and I thought we had it all figured out. Now I am not so sure. Lord, I don't know if you are trying to move us in a different direction, a different place or what Lord. I believe that this is somehow for our benefit (although I can't see it) and I pray in Jesus name that you give Eddie the opportunity for a new job. One he can feel successful at Lord. I pray that you give us clear and concise direction for our life Lord - do we stay or do we go Lord. In Jesus name I pray.